Self Reflection - Kim Jong Kook in Malaysia
June 25, 2013
This article is not mine. But, I guess I would like to share it here. Well, I know many of Korean or KPop fans are bloggers too. :)
I can't say it is wrong to be a fan. I am not a Mufti or anyone to make any fatwa. And my words are not a fatwa. People have different point of views and I have mine. It is just that I need to ask you to reflect your point of views by reading this article. Maybe you will have something in mind later. Peace :)
Sources :- Qistina Abdul Malik's FB. She is a fan too, tell you!
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[Moderation & Modesty : A friendly message from a fan to another fan]
If i have Kim Jong Kook's (KJK) phone number, i would gather up my faith, call him, try not to shriek when i hear his awesome mosquito voice (hehe) and tell him ;
"Bro you have to stop coming here. I don't know if you noticed, but I saw lots of my muslim sisters crushed their faith, pride and modesty down to pieces upon seeing you. Yelling their throats out and jumping their hearts out upon seeing you.
Or at least, please, just don't let them touch you. It bleeds my heart to see another sister just freely touching and holding your hands.
This is not really your fault, I am just explaining why i think that your presence here will do more harm than good to my fellow sisters."
I was watching the pictures from KJK's recent visit to Malaysia, and nothing hurts a sister more than seeing another sister shutting off her sense of modesty upon seeing him. How many were shouting like crazy? How many were trying to touch his abs? How many were trying to shake his hands? Really? Do we really have no sense of modesty and shame? Have we forgotten what our parents and teachers told us? What our religion taught us?
( "..If you have no shame, then do whatever you wish" )
How many went without their parents permission? How many lied to their parents to come? And..how many missed their prayers? How many forgot to pray? How many didn't even bother about their prayers?
This is not a bias statement. I am not saying this to make his fans mad neither do i hate him. I totally admire and respect his good traits, but i'm putting this from a muslim fan's point of view. A celebrity might be super cool and we might admire them to the highest extent possible, but, our belief and principle should always come first. We are always a muslim first; a muslim doctor, a muslim fan, a muslim singer,etc. The principles of Islam should always come first. Always.
I've been a fan of KJK since his XMan days. Whether as a singer or a performer or a comedian, i think the dude's great. His determination can be quite motivating. But as someone who wouldnt know if i can control myself on seeing him in real life, i prefer KJK staying inside the laptop as he had always been doing for the past few years. No shaking hand, no coming close, no skinship, no crazy yelling, just KJK inside the laptop. Just that.
I wouldnt go around running after a celebrity, thats not how i roll.
I just don't think its fair that our other sisters in syria are fighting their rapists and oppressors, while here we are in malaysia, some fighting among our own, to see who can get a better picture of KJK, or who can get closest to him. Some in other parts of the world are fighting to stand for their right and pride as a muslim women, while some of us here are flushing off our own pride down the drain for KJK. Its.Totally.Unfair.
So here's a request to all muslim fans of KJK who went to the showcase, who yelled, who shook hands, who missed their prayers, and everything else, please, let us, together, REFLECT ON OUR ACTIONS. Are our actions befitting of our muslim names and responsibilities?
Lasty, It'll be a dream come true if i see KJK asking a fan, are you a muslim? And if she said yes, then he says, "ok let's keep our distance then. Don't come too close okay?"
Daebak !
*no offense to the one in the picture, i made sure no faces were shown. This is to remind, not to humiliate anyone.
No offense. No hate. Peace out Papitus!
(Please share if it does any good to any fans.)
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Well, good writing, right? I had my self-reflection and I guess sometime, we need to moderate our behaviors. Yeap, I know you just can't resist him. But, we can remind ourselves by thinking of the rewards Allah will give us later by controlling our nafs? :)
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I know the feeling of being a fan. I was a fan. Maybe still a fan. KJK is a shy, talented, hardworking, dedicated man who I know from the screen. I never met him in real life, maybe I will go overexcited, but please pray that I will not.
And maybe you can also pray so that I feel nothing on him too :)
Ad-Deen, Buzulucka
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Doa Penerang Hati ;)
June 7, 2013
Sepatutnya, nak sambung revision ni. Tapi, aduhaii, buku depan mata, hati takda. Tak bagus betul. Lagi 5 hari je Nina. Dan dah sampai masa untuk ulang balik lagi sekali all topics tu. T_T
So, mari kita post something yang mudah-mudahan beneficial to all of us. Ameen. At least, masa yang digunakan untuk menaip ni diredhaiNya.
Baca dulu.
Kita dibesarkan dengan doa ni kan?
Dari kecil, sejak sekolah rendah, kita baca doa ni setiap pagi sebelum mula kelas. Kalau sekolah kat Malaysia, sekurang-kurangnya hampir 11 tahun baca doa yang sama setiap hari.
Ini bukan sekadar doa, ini ayat al-Quran taw. :) Lebih spesifik, ayat 25-28 surah ke-20, Taha.
Sejauh mana kita faham apa yang kita doakan ni? Aduh, nak taip ni pun rasa disiat-siat. Bila baru berjinak dengan terjemahan Al-Quran, memang terus rasa segan sendiri, suka mintak something dari Allah, tapi sebenarnya kita tak tahu pun apa yang kita mintak. Segan.
Syukur sangat Allah tetap makbulkan doa hamba-hambaNya. Alhamdulillah.
Oh, korang mesti dah tahu kan maksud ayat-ayat kat atas tu. Kalau tak tahu, takpe-takpe. Kita belajar sama-sama okay. :)
Dia (Musa) berkata, "Ya Tuhanku, lapangkanlah dadaku, dan mudahkanlah untukku urusanku, dan lepaskanlah kekakuan dari lidahku, agar mereka mengerti perkataanku"..... 20:25-28
Doa penerang hati.
Bila dah sampai kat Czech ni, baru sedar betapa dalamnya doa ni. Very deep. Meaningful, full of hope. Rasa tak? Dengan budaya berbeza, cara hidup berbeza, bahasa berbeza, macam mana kita nak survive kalau tanpa pertolonganNya kan? Aduhai, teringat lagi nak berkomunikasi dengan orang Czech awal-awal sampai dulu, buruk perangai -___-'
Dan satu perkara yang sampai sekarang boleh kira culture shock lagi, ialah exam oral. Hmmm kalau ikutkan kawan-kawan Medic kat India or Malaysia, diorang panggil viva. Sama ke tak caranya, maaflah tak tahu pulak.
Bila bercakap pasal lisan ni, mestilah melibatkan perkataan, or ayat senangnya ialah how we want to deliver our speech. Baru je lepas baca Physiology, speech kat sini bukanlah sekadar ucapan yang kita dengar orang berucap kat majlis apa-apa tu. There are so many things behind the scene untuk kita manage buat/susun ayat tu. Dari penerimaan data kat deria penglihatan / pendengaran, sampailah kita berjaya fikir macam mana nak susun ayat sekaligus mengeluarkannya dalam bentuk suara or penulisan. Termasuklah pemilihan perkataan yang sesuai.
Ops, blame my physiology mode.
Apa-apapun, pointnya kat sini, ialah cuba tengok ayat tu "agar mereka mengerti perkataanku". SubhanaAllah, memang kena sebijik la dengan kondisi sekarang. Kadang-kadang kita tahu je nak cakap apa, siap dah draft idea dalam kepala, tapi bila sampai masanya kita terus blur dan haru biru jadinya apa yang kita nak cakap tu. Lagi parah bila salah fakta or cakap belit-belit sampai orang ragu dengan kita. #ouch.
Allah dah bagi ayat best punya untuk kita amalkan dan ambil pengajaran so that apa yang kita cuba nak cakap, tersampai isinya.
InsyaAllah.
p/s - Kami tengah final exam kat sini, doakan kami semua ye. Mana tahu, kejayaan kami nanti hasil doa kalian juga. :)
Moga bermanfaat, moga Allah redha.
Salam Jumaat, jangan lupa recite Kahfi ya, sekali terjemahan lagi best. Wee.
Ad-Deen, Buzulucka
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